| Q: Dear Eugenia,
Over the last year my husband had several problems, in hospital 2 weeks, then to a specialist & everything seemed to be ok. We left for 6 months for Florida, just before we were to come home he became ill & under a doctors care we had to fly home. He was admitted to hospital with full-blown diabetic, spot (cancer) on his lung & liver. He was in ICU then transferred to palliative care & he new what this meant, as he was a volunteer at this hospital. We had set backs & he had 3 treatments, 3 times he went into a coma diabetic state & passed away 1month after in the hospital very suddenly. I was born February 3, 1939 at 1 AM and find myself all alone and wondering how my future looks now 11months later?
Aquarius |
A: Dear Aquarius,
 You have been through a lot this past year and although change is still upon you it isn’t necessarily bad. There appears to be some interesting occurrences in an area of your chart that deals with relationships, companionship and travel. I do not feel that you will remain alone for long, that opportunities to engage in social activities must be taken advantage of and that you have to go on living life to it’s fullest. God put us hear for a reason and you can’t just stop because of the changes that were forced upon you due to your husband’s death. Please don’t become a hermit or you will miss out on the apparent opportunities to meet someone who can help to fill the void you are feeling. |
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Dear Eugenia,
I have 2 children. My son was born May 26, 1982 at 3:56 a.m. and my daughter was born September 1, 1986 at 4:24 a.m. Unfortunately they really do not have anything in common and therefore do not get along. I spend more time with my daughter and she is unable to let the past go between them but would like a better relationship with her brother. My son has caused a lot of hurt in the past and is now doing much better. I think he too would like he and his sister to be closer. I come from a large family of seven children and really do not see any of my brothers and sisters except on special occasions. I sure hope that will not be the way it turns out with my two. I was born May 31, 1960 at 1 AM
Gemini Mom |
A: Dear Gemini Mom,
The comparison between your children is not great and even without all the problems your son has caused they wouldn’t be terribly close however family is family and I believe in time they will become closer due to the one common denominator – that being you. Your daughter isn’t the most forgiving person where both you and your son are far more willing and able to put the past behind you and move on. Your son’s chart indicates that he is ready now to try to make it up to his sister but unless she is willing to accept him this won’t happen. Your daughter may be more able to process the idea of letting him slowly back into her life late in 2009 if and only if he has been able to prove that he is trustworthy and not just out to get something. Next year does look better for both you and your son and I believe that if the two of you become closer eventually your daughter will be able to make the move as well. Don’t push to hard for this to happen this year. Your daughter is facing other dilemmas personally and won’t budget on this count however next year she will be in a better position to forgive but don’t fool yourself she will never forget. |
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Q: Dear Eugenia,
I have a problem! I am currently in a relationship that I am uncertain about. My boyfriend of 4 yrs has a serious drinking problem that has come to interfere w/in our everyday life drastically and we now share a child together. He has recently said he needs some space, time to figure out what he wants. I guess my question is are we even meant to be, we have been through so many challenges in the last few yrs. I love him with everything in me, sometimes I feel like I should just let go, but for some reason I just can't do it. I have some trust issues from previous relationships that interfere also, please help! Are things going to work out for us, should I just hang in there? I was born 2/7/81 at 1 AM and he was born12/5/79.
Aquarius
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A: Dear Aquarius,
You do not have the best comparison with your partner and that leads me to believe that you are not the one that he needs in his life to realize that being sober can be good. This relationship shows absolutely no opportunity for you long-term. His chart doesn’t resemble that of an alcoholic therefore I have to question why he is drinking. His chart does however show uncertainty and confusion due to a transit he has been going through for some time that will continue to bother him until the end of next year. Usually there is a reason a person wants to get drunk if they aren’t physically addictive and that is to forget the part of life that isn’t going well. Your comparison indicates lots of arguing so you really have to question if you are a healthy mix for one another. He is heading into his Saturn return next year and I believe he will probably reevaluate his life. This can help him sort through his drinking problem and hopefully move on however if nothing changes in his life he will probably decide that it’s too late to make such changes. Saturn return is a pivotal point in a person’s life and it either matures the person or they sink and give in to it. Hopefully enough change is made so that he does want to enjoy life sober. He is in a high cycle right now regarding love which means that he can consider what he might lose should you leave or find someone new (which may have already occurred) who he feels he has more in common with and who understands him better. You will be in a better position to find new love early next year. If he is does decide that you are the right one for him he will come back when your high cycle begins. Right now you need the year to care for your child and get your life back on track. I suggest that you leave now and give him time to sort out who he is and what he wants. It’s time to let him sink or swim. If he doesn’t come back by early next year someone else will enter your life that is better for you. Letting go is a hard thing to do but probably best for all involved. The situation right now cannot be an ideal setting for your child. So give your partner his space and get on with your life. |