Readers’ Email

Jun 25, 2017

SUNDAY, JUNE 25, 2017

DEAR EUGENIA 

Dear Eugenia: It has been a very tough time for me since September 2016, and it doesn’t seem to get any better. My son (born on Sept. 4, 2001, 8:40 a.m.) was diagnosed with cancer in September 2016. He is undergoing treatment and is having a difficult time.

Days run into nights, and there doesn’t seem to be a rainbow ahead. Will the tough times continue to plague us? 
 I was born on Sept. 22, 1966, about 6:30 p.m., and my husband was born on Aug. 21, 1966, at about 3:30 a.m.

Also, is this a good time for my husband to search for another job in our current location or in a different country? Finances are tight, as I had to give up my job. Please help me. — Desperate Virgo

DEAR DESPERATE VIRGO: Astrologically, it’s not the best time to make a long-distance move from one country to another. The country where you currently reside has excellent and affordable health care, and that’s something you cannot easily walk away from given your son’s situation.

The good news is that your son does have a pretty good natal chart that indicates he usually lands on his feet. Last year, when cancer struck, he was going through his first half-life Saturn. This transit enforced health issues and limitations where his education is concerned. The first sign of this dreaded disease hit his chart back in 2013 but went undetected. His chart shows that the situation will continue to have high and low cycles until the spring of 2019.

Your son is charming, intelligent and innovative. He is meant to be spending time engaging in things that stimulate his mind, body and soul. This is a learning experience for him that will encourage him to be an example for those who look up to him, appreciate him and love him.

Your chart indicates that you will be able to explore different ways to bring in extra income beginning late this year or early next year. As for your husband, greater opportunities are apparent in late September or early October of this year. He should be sending out his resume and fielding interviews between now and then.

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Dear Eugenia: I was born on Jan. 6, 1970, at 4:02 a.m., and the gentleman that I’m linked with at the moment was born on Oct. 27, 1967, 12 p.m. This is our second go-around. Are we meant to be romantic life partners, or did we miss out on learning lessons the first time around?

We have this immense sexual chemistry toward each other. Is that all it’s supposed to be — just an in-between before my life partner and I find each other? — Capricorn Biding Time

Dear Capricorn Biding Time: I do like the comparison mentally and physically. I don’t really see any reason why it can’t work. I believe you are both pragmatic and fear making a mistake when it comes to love and romance.

No relationship is perfect, so if you are searching for a flawless connection, you’ll be waiting a long time. The question you both have to ask is whether you can live with the things that aren’t perfect.

You fall into an area of his chart that deals with peers, friendships and getting along with his friends and family, and he falls into an area of your chart that deals with secrets and matters concerning the benefits of such a relationship.

He is going through uncertainty with regard to socializing, dealing with friends and relatives, and communicating openly about what he wants out of life. You are going through emotional uncertainty with regard to what you want your personal and professional future to blossom into.

As a couple, you can fair quite well, but only if you can discuss openly what you both want out of life and agree on a life plan. This relationship will face a make-it-or-break-it point by the end of next year. It’s worth the effort to give each other the time to explore the possibilities of a forever life together.

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DEAR EUGENIA: I have met a great guy. The problem is, he has been hurt in the past and wants to take things super slow. His birthdate is June 18, 1965, not sure on exact birth time, but sometime in the morning. I was born May 3, 1981, at 6:13 p.m.

I am not sure I am able to have kids, but I would like to try. He doesn’t want kids. This is the only area of conflict we have experienced; otherwise we get along well.

Things are in the very early stages. Would be grateful to get your perspective. — Taurus

Dear Taurus: The comparison appears to be a karmic connection. Emotionally and where children and opportunity to have a family are concerned, the interpretation suggests negativity that will eventually lead to problems.

Should you let this relationship develop to a point where one of you gives in regarding this issue, regrets will eventually take over. The comparison indicates emotional, mental and physical sorrow long-term. This falls into an area of your chart that deals with marriage contracts and desire to have children, and in his chart where children are concerned.

Think long and hard before you lock yourself into a relationship that cannot give you what you want. Your natal chart does not indicate that you cannot have children, and the time to consider pregnancy is between late August of this year and the end of 2018.

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