Readers’ Email

Mar 26, 2017

WEEK OF MARCH 26, 2017

DEAR EUGENIA 

DEAR EUGENIA: I was born March 26, 1969, at 6 a.m. I am writing to see if you can shed some light into what my future holds in terms of my marriage. I feel that I married the wrong person. There is no way I can find out, because my husband’s birth data is not known.

I have never felt any joy in this relationship, but I want to know if you see happiness for me in my future. I will appreciate any information you can give me. — Aries

DEAR ARIES: I can see that you are getting itchy feet when it comes to love and romance. Your chart indicates that you are going through a period that is directly linked to finding love and romance; however, if it isn’t through attempting to make your current relationship work, it is your cue to move on.

Should this be the case, you should make your position clear and discuss alternatives with your husband to enforce an amicable split sooner rather than later.

Greater opportunity to find love, romance and happiness are with you between now and the end of the summer, so don’t linger if this is what you truly want.

You match up to the signs Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius.

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DEAR EUGENIA: I’ve been in pain physically and mentally for about five years now. I want to know if I’ll get relief soon. I have not been working because of pain and anxiety. My husband (born June 5, 1971) causes some of my stress. We get along as long as I am doing what he likes, although he has been better lately. I just want to be happy and healthy again.

My kids are a source of stress as well because they don’t help around the house. My oldest was born Aug. 27, 1995, at 6:30 p.m., and her sister was born Sept. 19, 2001, at 12:47 p.m.

I want to be on my own, but I also to want to stay and make everything work out. I am trying to take a class, but I have a hard time focusing and I get distracted easily. Is the path I’ve been on the right one, or do I just give it up? I feel conflicted all the time. I was born March 21, 1971, at 6:45 p.m. I’m an Aries with Libra rising and a sad Capricorn moon. — Aries

DEAR ARIES: The Libra-Aries in your chart can cause that push-pull effect you are feeling, and with your Moon and Mars in Capricorn, it hasn’t helped — especially with transiting Jupiter moving through Libra, causing uncertainty, doubt and a tendency to overreact. Until this transit passes, you are probably best to wait before trying to make any decisions regarding educational pursuits or where you live.

I would like to caution you, however, that your astrological comparison with your husband is pretty good — not perfect, but certainly workable. I do see that mentally you are not always honest with each other, and that communication has been allowed to diminish over the years. That doesn’t mean you have to leave in order to find peace of mind.

Honest and open communication is what makes a relationship work. It’s time you let your husband know that you feel it’s one-sided and that you have become a shell of a person under his regime. If he loves you, he will either consider counseling to help equalize your relationship.

The lack of focus regarding your studies has more to do with your preoccupation with being unhappy, discontent and stressed out to the point that you feel physically and mentally ill.

Your husband may be a Gemini by Sun sign, but he is strongly influenced by Taurus and Scorpio, making him stubborn and possessive. With his natal Mars adversely positioned to the Taurus and Scorpio in his chart, I’m sure he isn’t easy to live with when he doesn’t get his way. However, if you are to survive in this relationship and get back to the love you obviously once had, he’s going to have to put forth as much as an effort as you.

As for your daughters, the eldest has been going through a very confusing period the past couple of years with regard to educational pursuits, personal relationships and what she is going to do next. The youngest has just experienced her first half-life Saturn; however, that’s no excuse for not helping out at home.

Stop being the martyr and set new rules; speaking up is half the battle.

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DEAR EUGENIA: I’ve been working at an elementary achool for the last five years. My boss (born Dec. 24, 1975) is never satisfied; she’s very controlling and manipulative. I work hard all the time, yet she has overlooked me for positions I’m qualified for that make more money twice now.

Should I stay where I am? I have knowledge of a job that is opening in April. Will this be a smart move for me? I’m looking for something that is less stressful with flexible hours and a higher salary.

My daughter (born Feb. 23, 2000 at 5:29 a.m.) will be graduating next year from high school. I have been told that my future husband is looking for me, and I want to know if he’s coming my way in the near future. I feel like my life has been at a standstill for the last 18 years because of fear. Point me in the right direction, please. I was born May 19, 1964, at 5:42 p.m. — Standing Still

DEAR STANDING STILL: Oddly enough, your comparison with your boss isn’t bad as far as your mental connection is concerned; however, you both have your natal Moon in close proximity to each other, and the last couple of years your emotional connection would have been difficult. The other noteworthy connections that stood out in your comparison are sorrow with regard to how you treat each other and a definite lack of being able to present each other with opportunities. This doesn’t bode well if she controls your chance to get ahead.

Making a professional move to another school looks promising, but not until the last four months of the year, so if you intend to make a move sooner, it may take you that long to fit in, feel comfortable or become accustomed to the new position.

When it comes to love and romance, that, too, improves beginning in late August and will continue to favor you until the late spring of next year. You match up well to the signs Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces.

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