SUNDAY, JULY 15, 2018
DEAR EUGENIA: I was born Aug. 16, 1995, at 3:29 a.m. It seems like my life gets really bad, but somehow things work out. I lost my job and my truck, and I received an eviction notice. I have two children — a daughter born Nov. 26, 2016, and a son born Dec. 24, 2017.
I was recently seeing someone before I lost what seemed like everything. I feel as if we are meant to be, or maybe I just wanted us to be, but he lets everyone come between us. His birthdate is Jan. 3, 1992.
I don’t know where my life is headed, but I was thinking of starting to write music. I don’t know what to do. I really hope you can help.
Also, there is a guy from my past who has come into the picture. His birthday is Aug. 24, 1993. Both guys are into music. However, the August guy is talking about moving to pursue a career in music.
Help me, please. What can I do to be successful and provide a comfortable home and have love? What do the stars have in store for me?– Leo
DEAR LEO: Although your astrological comparisons to the two guys you’ve been seeing aren’t the best, the Capricorn far exceeds the Virgo. Your Capricorn has a decent chart but isn’t going to settle for anything less than what he wants and will not put you before his family or his work unless he is serious enough to put a ring on your finger. I’d take a pass when it comes to your Virgo.
You will be in a much higher cycle next year regarding love, and you should really focus on your children and work. Your chart indicates you have talent, but music is a hard industry to break into.
I am a big believer in pursuing your creative dream, but being responsible for your children means you will have to hold down a job as well.
Please don’t waste this summer with men who are not the best influence or who don’t put you first. Stay focused on taking care of your kids, writing music and a job that will pay the bills.
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DEAR EUGENIA: My husband walked out on my kids and me on March 2, 2018, after taking money from me. He did this back in 2003 and left for a year but returned when he realized he still loved me. I love my husband. He has a gambling addiction, and his family members are also gamblers. I feel he is brainwashed by both his mother and sister against me. They support his actions since they gamble. When they no longer want him, they tell him to go home. Both my son and I have tried to convince him he needs help.
Unfortunately, I have mortgaged my home to pay his debts. Since he left in March, he has now blocked me from calling him on his cell, at home and at work. I leave him messages telling him how much I love him and how he hurt me. Our son has even tried to help him financially, and my husband ruined our son’s credit.
Will he come home? I am so depressed and cry all the time. I don’t eat or sleep and can’t work since my mind is constantly on him. I know he still loves me. I feel it in my heart. Please don’t include his birthdate if you reply. I was born at about 4, but I don’t know if it’s morning or afternoon. Thank you for any advice you can offer. — Gemini
DEAR GEMINI: I don’t usually choose a request that lacks accurate birth data, but I feel in your case you need to hear whatever information I can offer based on what you submitted.
The astrological comparison between you and your spouse isn’t great. Yes, you have a physical connection, but you also have different life values, and that will never change.
Your husband is a man who lands on his feet because other people, like you, catch him and end up suffering for his lifestyle. I do not see him changing, nor do I see him going for help unless forced by authorities — or worse — a bookie who cares little about feeble excuses.
Please do not bail out this man again. He is going through very rough astrological transits this year and next, and you should let him pay the price for the mistakes he’s made. That is the only way he may kick the gambling habit.
You and your son should cut your losses and get on with your lives.
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DEAR EUGENIA: I met my twin flame well over 20 years ago. Although he is younger (born Dec. 13, 1959), we are deeply and karmically connected. However, we always fight and can’t seem to settle into a loving relationship. I’m wondering if he is a false flame? We’ve had many lifetimes together, I’m sure. I was born Dec. 6, 1948, at 8:29 p.m. — Sagittarius
DEAR SAGITTARIUS: The astrological comparison between you and your Sagittarius man is riddled with sorrow. Whether it’s karmic or not, I believe you have both paid your dues and should move on. He was never meant to be more than a lover, and if that’s all you both want, fine. However, to try to turn this relationship into one that is emotionally and intellectually good is unlikely.
With his natal Mars (god of war, energy, anger) sitting on your natal Mercury (communication/thought process), the arguments are destined to continue. To make matters worse, his natal Neptune (deception/disillusionment) sits on your natal Venus (physical love), and this leads to sorrow should you try to cohabitate.
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