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Dear Eugenia

SUNDAY, JULY 7, 2019

DEAR EUGENIA by Eugenia Last

DEAR EUGENIA: I’m genuinely beginning to wonder if something is wrong with me! I consider myself to be a charming and friendly person, but I can’t seem to find friends.

Trying to find love is even harder! It’s to the point where I keep going back to the man I’ve been in and out of a relationship with for the last 20 years, knowing it’s not good for me. I simply don’t want to be alone. I don’t know what to do at this point since I’m not one to hang out alone in bars or clubs. I’ve tried online dating, but because of my preference, whoever I meet is always so far away. I was born on Sept. 27, 1969, at 12:18 a.m. — Lonely Libra

DEAR LONELY LIBRA: Your chart doesn’t indicate that you have a bad vibe, but it does denote you do have a certain standard that you live by, and that can narrow your chance to find true love.

What is apparent is that the past couple of years, you have been feeling more like settling down. That feeling will continue for at least the next 18 months. On a positive note, beginning in late August, you will start a high cycle concerning meeting potential partners. However, that means you will have to make an effort.

You should be considering your preference when it comes to a partner, and research to see if there is an online dating service that is geared toward what you are looking for. Distance may be a problem, but someone you meet may entice you to make a move or be willing to do so.

Traveling, attending conferences, trade shows or signing up for a course or something physical you enjoy can also lead to a special connection.

You are overdue for a change. Personal growth, a change of scenery or picking up a new hobby should all be considered.

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DEAR EUGENIA: I am a regular on your website, and it is beneficial. I cannot thank you enough.

I moved to a different country as an international student in August 2016. Nobody in my family forced me; it was my decision. But now it’s been three years here, and I am on a work permit, and I might even get residency if I work hard enough. But now I have started to miss my home and family and wonder whether to stay or go. If I stay here, I can potentially make a lot of money, and if I move back, I won’t have the same opportunities to be successful. My heart tells me to move back after my work permit expires in 2021. Since I have come here, my life has become dull; it’s only been work and sleep. Although this is a beautiful country, I get so lonely.

Also, this year in January, I traveled back home for my cousin’s wedding, which meant I had to leave my job. When I returned, I couldn’t find a job for three months. I finally found one, but I’m not getting many hours, and the pay is low, and my savings are literally zero. Should I decide to move back home, I will have to make a lot of money between now and 2021 if I’m going to be able to do so. Nothing is going to plan, and I don’t know what to do. I was born on Oct. 18, 1998, at 11:50 p.m. — Feeling Lost

DEAR FEELING LOST: Regarding your work-related problem, someone you have met or collaborated with through work or school is likely to give you a lead on a position that will help your financial situation. This will come into play December to April. It will be a position that can bring you in contact with people who can become more than just peers — in other words, friendships, relationships or partnerships.

You will be uncertain about moving home until the spring of next year. After that, you will have greater clarity regarding where you are living and how best to move forward. Consider what qualifications you can gain while still living in your current location to be prosperous should you return to your native homeland. It’s the experience and the education you gather that will determine how successful you will become, no matter where you decide to reside.

Sometimes you are your own worst enemy, refusing to see the possibilities and withdrawing from doing the things you need to do socially that will help you network your way into the opportunities you desire.

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DEAR EUGENIA: I’ve been divorced more than 20 years and have not had a lasting relationship since. I’m almost 70 now, and I feel like I never will. My children have their own lives, and most of my close friends have passed on. Is it too late for me to experience love? I have a Pisces male friend, but I’m not sure about him. His birthdate is March 18, 1950, and mine is Aug. 22, 1949, at 12:22 a.m. — Virgo

DEAR VIRGO: Your Pisces friend is a candidate for love according to your astrological comparison. However, before you make a decision, you should consider why you haven’t turned this friendship into something more already. If you aren’t feeling the connection or you think this relationship lacks opportunity or the potential to give you what you want or need out of a relationship at this stage of your life, you may want to hold out for a little longer.

Beginning next spring, you will see your life and what you want differently. You will gain stability, confidence and should have a chance. Make a choice to socialize, travel and participate more in life and love. This will continue throughout 2020 and 2021.

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Daily Scope

SUNDAY, JULY 7, 2019

THE LAST WORD IN ASTROLOGY BY EUGENIA LAST

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY:Michelle Kwan, 39; Berenice Bejo, 43; Shelley Duvall, 70; Ringo Starr, 79.

Happy Birthday: Take the time to make a difference. Whether it’s at home or helping someone, how you go about your business and use your skills will make your life better. Look forward, not back. Move toward those who offer positive feedback and the support you need to reach your goals. Change what isn’t working for you with something that is. Your numbers are 8, 13, 23, 25, 34, 38, 49.

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Shut out the drama and ongoing problems, and walk away from discord or unpredictable situations and people. Do something that makes you happy and helps you look your best. Expand your interests, and make new friends. 3 stars

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Don’t worry about the changes someone is making. Consider what’s best for you. A difference you aren’t too happy about will end up being to your benefit. Go about your business, and let situations unfold naturally. Romance is on the rise. 5 stars

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Don’t waste time on the impossible. Be realistic about what you can achieve, and head for the finish line. It’s OK to dream big, but not at the expense of falling short altogether. Set a reasonable goal, and make it happen. 2 stars

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Plan to have some fun. Invite people over or plan a social event that includes people you find stimulating. Update your appearance or reconnect with someone you haven’t seen in a long time. Turn this day into one filled with memories. 4 stars

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Take care of money matters. Instead of spending, figure out a way to save. Don’t argue over something you cannot change. Put your energy where it counts or brings you the highest return. 3 stars

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Stick to the facts, and express your concerns with honesty and integrity. Personal changes will bring you closer to the people you care about most. A gathering will impact the way you think. 3 stars

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): You may be right, but it won’t help if you rub it in. Keep your thoughts to yourself, and suggest doing something that will make those around you feel better, not worse. Consider a job prospect you see online. Revise your resume. 3 stars

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Get involved in something you’ve never experienced. Attend an event that will spark your imagination and bring you in contact with people who have as much to offer as you do. What you discover will lead to a lifestyle change. 4 stars

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Emotional spending should be avoided. An emotional incident can cost you a friendship with someone you thought you could trust. Refrain from using personal information if you don’t want someone to use it against you. Trust is earned, not bought. 2 stars

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): A change at home will bring you closer to someone you love. Include the people you care about most in formulating plans that will alter the way you move forward. A joint effort will encourage hands-on help. 5 stars

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Look at the big picture, and make decisions based on long-term effects. Take your time, even if someone tries to push you to take a leap of faith. Words and choices matter, and mistakes waste valuable time. 3 stars

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Size up situations, the cost involved and the facts that substantiate moving forward before you take a chance on something that is based on a rumor. Don’t let your feelings for someone lead you in a direction that isn’t good for you. 3 stars

Birthday Baby: You are particular and accommodating. You are practical and aspiring.

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Astro Weekly

SUNDAY, JULY 7, 2019

ASTRO ADVICE WEEKLY by Eugenia Last

July 7 – July 13, 2019

     ARIES (March 21-April 19): Be open to constructive criticism on the 7th, and you will learn a lot about the way others perceive you. Make a change because you feel you need to, not because someone puts demands on you. Choose to talk about the concerns you have on the 8th and 9th rather than stew about what’s happening. Best to take care of matters while they are still easy to fix. Gather information on the 10th, 11th and 12th that will help you make adjustments to the way you earn your living. Sign up for a course or choose someone to mentor. You’ll be given an opportunity on the 13th that shouldn’t be disregarded.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Use your emotions on the 7th to navigate your way through difficult situations. Only say what’s necessary, and you’ll avoid getting into a dispute with someone you love. Choose romance over petty differences. Do what needs to be done on the 8th and 9th, and take care of financial, legal or medical matters personally. The less anyone knows about your affairs, the better. Let your actions speak for you on the 10th, 11th and 12th. Make a concerted effort to please someone you love. Spending time with someone who can feed you information pertinent to something you want to do will speed things up. Make adjustments at home on the 13th that will cut costs, ease stress and add to your comfort.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Don’t trust what others tell you on the 7th. Go directly to the source, and get the facts. Change must be made based on truth and feasibility. Nurturing should be a priority on the 8th and 9th. Whether you are dealing with youngsters, your lover or self-pampering, don’t lose sight of what you want to achieve. Pay attention to how you handle money and responsibilities on the 10th, 11th and 12th, and you will curb excessive behavior. Knowing you have a safety net instead of a debt will ease your mind. Say what you are thinking on the 13th to find out where you stand. Working alongside someone you love will make whatever you do less tedious. Mental stimulation will lead to overdue change.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Positive change can be made on the 7th that will improve the way you live. Whether it’s directly linked to health, diet and exercise or your comfort and peace of mind, the results will have long-term benefits. If you overanalyze a situation on the 8th and 9th, it will cause anxiety and worry. How you relate to and deal with others will determine the response you receive on the 10th, 11th and 12th. Take physical action to make things better. Look for common ground and compromise. Don’t trust someone competitive to look out for your interests on the 13th. Take care of matters personally.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): A change should be made for the right reason on the 7th, not due to anger or because someone did something unexpected. Focus more on how you look and improving your overlook appearance. There is no point getting upset over something you cannot change on the 8th and 9th. Look at all you have, and choose to offer a positive attitude when dealing with others. Take on projects that make you happy on the 10th, 11th and 12th. Don’t seek approval from someone who is inconsistent and is likely to criticize you for the choices you make. It’s best to be secretive for the time being. Take part in something that stimulates your mind and fills your heart with joy.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Stop thinking about what you want to do, and start doing it. Progress can be made on the 7th if you put forth the initiative and turn your dream into a reality. Don’t let the past hold you back on the 8th and 9th. Size up what happened and why, and move forward without regret. The past is a lesson, not a life sentence. Do something new and exciting on the 10th, 11th and 12th, and it will lead to a change that will shape your future. A change in the way you feel about someone will encourage you to make a move. Listen carefully on the 13th; someone will tell you one thing but probably be thinking of the opposite.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Don’t give in to someone on the 7th who is taking unfair liberties with you. Speak up, and set rules that protect you from being taken for granted. Be willing to walk away from ultimatums and abuse. Keep your emotions tucked away on the 8th and 9th until you have a complete understanding of a situation that can influence your personal or professional life. Look for alternative ways to earn money on the 10th, 11th and 12th. A change to the way you spend or share expenses will help you save for something you want to pursue. Listen to what others have to say on the 13th, and consider how to use the information you receive to benefit yourself.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Connect with people who make you think on the 7th. You don’t have to believe everything you are told, but it will plant seeds that will allow you to build a better future. Be careful how you deal with institutions, experts or anyone who can make your life difficult on the 8th and 9th. Don’t make an adjustment if you aren’t prepared. Pay more attention to the way you present who you are on the 10th, 11th and 12th. Spending time with someone special will renew your faith in love, friendship and humanity. Put your energy into learning something new on the 13th. Be reluctant to reconnect with someone who disappointed you in the past. Once bitten, twice shy.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Trust and honesty should rank high on your list on the 7th. If you or someone else isn’t being upfront, you may want to reconsider where your relationship is heading. Don’t consider walking away from one job or situation on the 8th and 9th if you haven’t put a plan in place. Go over the fine details, and negotiate on your own behalf. Set the standard instead of conforming to someone else’s rules. Someone will make an offer or suggestion on the 10th, 11th and 12th that sounds spectacular, but before you decide to get involved in a joint venture, consider the risk involved. Overdoing it will lead to a loss on the 13th. Moderation is encouraged.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Keep an open mind on the 7th, and you will discover all sorts of things you didn’t know about people from different backgrounds. Don’t buy into a sales pitch from someone trying to get you to change your beliefs. Emotions will be up and down on the 8th and 9th. Consider what’s causing the fluctuation, and distance yourself from the problem. Use your skills, knowledge and experience to wow someone you want to impress on the 10th, 11th and 12th. A proposal or partnership will give you something to think about. Romance is highlighted. Don’t share too much information on the 13th. The less you tell others, the easier it will be to get things done your way.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Contain any aggressive feelings you have on the 7th, and direct your energy into something that is going to be productive. The less you let others know about the way you feel, the easier it will be to get things done. A dispute will result in interference. Get your personal papers, documents and medical records in order on the 8th and 9th. Being prepared will give you the upper hand when dealing with red tape that could slow down the process of getting what you want. Use your charm on the 10th, 11th and 12th, and you’ll bypass an obstacle. Don’t let an unexpected change someone makes throw you off guard. Plan to have some fun on the 13th, but don’t go overboard.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Use your intuitive imagination on the 7th when dealing with personal matters, and it will lead to self-improvement. If you agree to do something on the 8th and 9th, follow through and doors will open. Building a good reputation as someone who can be trusted will make your life easier. You’ll be rewarded on the 10th, 11th and 12th for your input, dedication and kindness toward those less fortunate. A positive change at home will make you feel good about prospects. A commitment can be put in place. Stay away from bad influences on the 13th. Do what’s best for yourself. If someone pressures you to be indulgent, know enough to walk away.

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